Men like the chase. As soon as you give them everything, they will get lazy. It’s proven fact.. Although we’re living in a world of equality and women have to open their own doors, step in puddles and pay for half of the dinner… somehow we find ourselves still coming out on top. We have something that men crave and all in all need. Ever see a man go without sex for more then a week? Worse than a woman on pms. Somehow women can get by without having a man in their lives. We have each other, and that physical touch can come from another woman to fill our need for warmth and affection. Men on the other hand can’t hug each other and get off. It doesn’t work that way. Despite everything society throws at us, we fall back to habit and tradition. If you present yourself in a certain way, a man will treat you as you wish to be treated. If you show yourself off like a piece of meat… he will devour you and throw out the bone with the trash the next day, never thinking of you again. Women use physical attraction to win over men’s emotions; and Men use emotions to win over a woman’s physical feats.
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Never back down ladies. Keep your man in wanting. He will keep crawling back, no matter how often you send him away. He likes it 😉
The last few of my posts have been negative. I’ve had some feedback on my “failing love life;” and, honestly, I don’t see it as failure. Every person is different and the more you get to know someone, the more you can control a situation. In the last year, I have set out to date as many guys as possibly. Whether it be at the same time, or weeks apart. I want to know what makes a man tick and why it does just so. I’ve outlines a few of my favorite guys, Mr. 17yr old daughter, Mr. Hoarder….They will keep coming. Despite the fact that I broke things off with them, it was a great learning curve! Someone at the age of 40 is just as vulnerable as someone who is 20 if you dangle something they want in their face. Of course, I date guys with a certain amount of tact, class, and etiquette. Safety first. Overall, you have to lure him in and then bait him as often as you can… don’t tease! Follow through… but be subtle.. and go at a deathly slow rate. If he wants more right away and gives you an ultimatum, Dump That Dude! A real man will be patient… as you drive him crazy with your seduction and feminism.
I believe that there is more than just The One. I believe that we have been created to find a type of person. If not, we would all be dating and marrying the wrong people all the time creating a domino effect. So as you date, remember the feats that you enjoyed, why you said yes to that first date, and keep them marked somewhere. When you date again, you look for those and all that is left to finding your perfect man 😉
Be Fabulous!!
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